Welcome to Arya!
Are you new here? Well, welcome to Arya, where all of your secret fantasies, dreams, and desires are about to come true…
If you’re curious to find out more about the Arya journey and what you can expect from it once you sign up, then you’ve come to the right place!
“It’s time for some adult playtime!”
What Can Arya Do for You?
You might be asking yourself: “Okay, but why Arya? Why not any other sexual wellness platform I can find?”
It’s normal to question whether Arya is right for you if you haven’t tried it before. So, let us explain where the magic lays and why you should choose Arya over other intimacy subscription boxes:
Arya gets you and your partner to try new things together: novelty is the KEY to longevity and increased sexual satisfaction in any relationship, and here at Arya we’re all about bringing something new to try with every Scene (if you’re curious to know what a Scene is, we have an explanation post).
Arya makes building communication skills fun: as you unlock your Scenes and dive into new erotic experiences, you also hone your communication skills along the way. A win-win!
Arya encourages you and your partner to push your sexual boundaries: Arya Scenes are designed to encourage the exploration of new things so you and your partner can unleash your full erotic potential.
Arya makes it convenient: eroticism has never been more convenient! Arya sends you erotic inspiration and guidance straight to your phone, AND your box with all the tools you’ll need for exploration arrives in discreet packaging right to your doorstep, so you don’t even have to leave the comfort of your own home.
Arya makes it easy to make time for each other: once you have your Arya box in your hands, there are no more excuses – it’s time for you and your partner to spend some quality, intentional time. Just the two of you.
If you want to read about all the ways Arya benefits your relationship more in-depth, check out our blog post about building emotional intimacy.
“It brought a lot of intimacy back to our relationship that we had let go of after 10 years.”
Welcome to Arya: Let Us Introduce You to the Better Sex And Intimacy Experience
Awesome, now that you know why Arya is *magic*, let’s go over the Arya journey and what you can expect – from very start to finish.
Onboarding Process
Your Arya journey starts the moment you sign up!
We have designed an onboarding process that allows us to get to know you and your partner, understand what it is that you’re seeking, and it allows you to customize your Arya journey.
When you sign up, we’ll ask you and your partner to fill out a brief questionnaire so a team of intimacy and relationship experts can curate your journey for you.
Don’t worry if your partner doesn’t fill out their form! We can still send you both curated Scenes based on YOUR responses.
And hey! Maybe after a few Arya-filled nights, your partner will be ready to let us curate Scenes for their desires as well. So, don’t let your partner’s hesitation stop you.
“Arya is not about one night of passion. It’s a holistic service to help you have a more pleasurable, connected, communicative relationship with your partner.”
Collections
Every couple that signs up for Arya gets sorted into one of our many Collections. You are assigned based on your and your partner’s unique interests that you had the chance to express during the onboarding process.
Each Collection consists of multiple Scenes that help you and your partner explore different sides of eroticism and intimacy, while also help you to acquire new skills and experiences along the way.
Here’s a little taste of some of Arya's Collections:
Art of Touch: a Collection of Scenes designed to help you experiment with new sensations, learn your and your partner’s body better, and find new ways to extend sexual pleasure.
Kinky Curiosities: a Collection of Scenes designed to get you and your partner out of your comfort zones and play around with new, exhilarating ways to bring pleasure to each other.
Erotic Expression: a Collection of Scenes designed to improve your communication and learn to have more pleasurable and connected sexual experiences with your partner.
Our curation algorithm considers your and your partner’s intimacy needs as well as Erotic Personas to sort you into the perfect Collection and give you personalized Scenes that make sense for you and your partner.
“We’ve never done anything like this before and it put a spark in our marriage and relationship. Arya’s really opened us up to new things and we’re finding out who our true selves are physically and what we really like.”
Scenes
It’s important to note that Arya is NOT a box subscription service. We provide you with everything – from curated content to tools to help you enhance your new erotic and intimate experiences.
Each Arya experience plays out as a Scene. During your Scene journey, here’s what you can expect to receive:
Inspiration: exploration starts with your imagination. You’ll receive a selection of curated fantasy stories for each Scene that will inspire you for what’s to come and spark desire. You can pick your favorite fantasy story and we’ll share it with your partner, so they can get excited as well!
Guidance: for each new experience you and your partner choose to embark on, we provide extensive guidance so both of you can have a smooth and pleasurable experience with no stress.
Tools: lastly, our experts curate a selection of items that are perfect to fulfill your needs and desires during each Scene. We sent these tools to you in a discreet box, straight to your doorstep.
The entire process of a Scene should take you around seven to ten days to complete. And all the information will be sent to you via text messages leading up to the day you receive your box.
Talk about building erotic tension…
Also, these Scenes are tailored to meet your specific relationship needs, whatever they might be – whether that would be exploring intimacy or new sexual desires.
If you’re curious to find out what you can expect, here are a few themes you can explore with Arya Scenes:
Playing With Fire: temperature and wax play (be cautious: it gets HOT).
Delay & Obey: the art of edging, at your fingertips.
Bound To Please: explore restraint play, the second most popular sexual fantasy people have.
“Arya is backed with science and designed to please.”
Arya Concierge
Did you know that there is a REAL person always ready to help you make your Arya journey as smooth as possible and answer any questions you or your partner might have?
When signing up for Arya, you get to decide how often and when you want your Concierge to message you and your partner about the next steps in your journey.
Rest assured – with Arya, you’re in good hands!
How To Get Your Partner Excited for Arya
If you’re excited to try Arya, but your partner is hesitant (or they don’t even know about Arya yet), don’t worry! We got you covered.
Our team of relationship and sex experts works with couples all of the time and they have put together a framework of how to introduce Arya to a hesitant partner.
So, here are our Arya expert tips on how to talk to your partner about Arya and get them just as excited about the experience as you are:
“Now looking back, we realized that we both were holding back a lot and after trying Arya we can talk about our desires… So it’s been really fun and good for our relationship.”
Tell Them Arya Is About Experimenting Together
Avoid framing Arya as a “relationship fixer” or “like therapy.” We are a new kind of service that helps ignite passion and connection between partners, but without the intense interventions, you’d experience in a therapist’s office. Instead, we give couples new skills, techniques, and toys with expert guidance and spicy content to keep them entertained and excited to play!
Tell Them Why You Are Excited To Join Arya With Them
Let your partner know why you want to try Arya. And then, ask your partner what would make them excited about joining Arya with you! Make sure you emphasize their pleasure and interest in experimenting with you.
Keep It Light and Fun
Arya is about exploration and playing with your partner, so set the tone of the conversation to be exciting—maybe even a little saucy. That way, they’ll also have a better idea of what to expect once you’re on our app!
Avoid Framing Your Relationship or Your Partner as a Problem
If they’re concerned as to why you would want to try this, circle back to Arya being a collaboration as well as an exploration. It’s not about your relationship being in trouble or your partner having “a problem.” It’s about trying something new to unlock the world of better sex.
Don’t Get Defensive
It’s OK to have different opinions, emotions, or desires than your partner. In fact, accepting differences in personalities is fundamental to being in a healthy relationship. If they want something different or different than you, remember: Arya helps couples with different “relationship wiring” connect their circuitries rather than asking couples to focus on one person’s desires over the other.
Schedule a Date Night and SHOW Them What Arya Is
Sometimes your partner just needs to experience an Arya Scene first before getting hooked. Join Arya, get your first box, and guide your partner through a night of pleasure and connection. Don’t worry: We’ll make sure you feel confident before leading the Scene or using any of the box items. You’ll have access to our guides, expert videos, immersive erotica, and so much more!
Life is so grown up. It’s time to play.
Sign up for Arya and start your exciting journey today.
