24 Unique Gift Ideas for Curious and Adventurous Couples + Exclusive Discount Codes!
This article was written for Arya by Karolina Wilde
Karolina Wilde is the author of House of Pain, the first book in a seductive dark fantasy romance trilogy, a journalist, and a sex-positive freelance writer who worked with some of the biggest brands in the world. She has a serious obsession with chocolate (dark or milk, never white, and always with salted caramel), and when she's not writing another book or another client article, she can be found playing World of Warcraft or trying to conquer her never-ending TBR pile.
If you’ve been together for quite a while, it can get harder to think of fun, useful, and exciting gifts to give your partner for the holidays. So, why not give them something sexy that will not only spice up your bedroom life but also bring you closer?
And we’re not just talking about a sex toy or lingerie set! Turn it up a notch and co-create an experience neither of you will forget.
Arya’s Gift Guide: 24 Unique Gift Ideas for Couples
A Creative Gift for Your Husband or Wife: Arya Membership
If you’re looking for a unique gift for your husband or wife this year, Arya’s bi-annual or annual membership is a creative way to prioritize your relationship and your partner’s pleasure. Bring more fun and novelty into your lives. You deserve it!
Here’s what Arya’s membership includes:
Exclusive digital content to guide you through a sensual journey
Curated fantasy stories for inspiration
A selection of premium Objects of Desires
24/7 access to your personal intimacy coach
A Gift for the Wife Who Wants Deeper Angles: Pillo by Dame
This supportive and comfortable sex pillow is the perfect gift for a partner who loves to experiment with different sex positions. It makes all the positions more comfy and accessible. Plus, it’s discreet and fits in well with your interior decor, so you won’t even have to hide it!
Arya Tip: Use the ARYA18 code to get 18% off at checkout! (Limited to one per customer and can’t be combined with other offers).
A Gift for the Partner Who Loves a Sensual Body Massage: Massage Oil Candle by Je Joue
A sensual massage is so much better with a massage oil candle on hand! Not only does it stimulate your senses with physical touch, but it can also add a touch of temperature play. A perfect gift for a partner who loves to give and receive full-body massages.
A Gift for the Husband Who Deserves a Little Treat: Stroker Sleeve by Hello Cake
If your partner enjoys handjobs and BJs, then this Hello Cake stroker sleeve is the perfect gift for them. It’s made from quality materials, and its ribbed canal adds extra stimulation to enhance pleasure and allow your partner to explore new sensations.
A Gift for the Lover Who Wants To Feel Sexy yet Comfy: Phoebe Babydoll by Only Hearts Lingerie
A great way to stimulate the senses visually is with sexy lingerie! If you’re a visual person, or your partner is easily turned on by visuals, then gifting them a piece of luxurious lingerie will definitely make them happy this holiday season.
A Gift for the Girlfriend Who Loves Oral Sex: Satisfyer Pro 2 by Satisfyer
When you want to gift your partner a world of totally new sensations, we recommend getting a suction toy! It’s designed to simulate the sensation of oral sex, and it definitely feels different from all the other clitoral vibes. All the oral sex fans will be charmed!
A Gift for the Partner Who Deserves More Orgasms: Intimacy Melts by Foria
These intimacy melts with CBD are clinically proven to enhance pleasure during penetration and increase the internal glide, which can help your partner achieve orgasms faster and easier, maybe even multiple times in a row. More pleasure is definitely a gift worth giving.
Adults want gifts they can play with, too.
Give them something to talk about with an Arya membership.
A Gift for the Husband Who Loves To Please: Band by maude
C-rings can add a lot of new and pleasurable sensations to solo and partnered play. If your partner has a penis and you want to surprise them with something special that will enhance their pleasure and will also feel good for you, this vibrating C-ring will do the trick!
A Gift for the Partner Who Loves To Create: Art Kit by Love Is Art
Making a sex painting with your partner is a fun and playful way to spend time together. Especially if your partner has a creative soul and loves to paint or draw. Consider gifting them an art kit that’s designed with couples in mind and will give them an opportunity to unleash their inner creativity in a way they haven’t experienced before. You’ll both get a chance to create a piece of art you can have on your wall for years to come.
A Gift for the Boyfriend Who Wants To Get Kinky: Beginner’s Bondage Kit by Liebe Seele
Has your partner expressed desire to dabble in some kinky play but aren’t sure where to start? This high-quality BDSM kit is designed with beginners in mind so they can relax and enjoy the experience to the fullest, even if it’s their first time trying restraint play.
Arya Tip: Use ARYA15 to get 15% off on anything on Liebe Seele’s website!
A Gift for the Partner Who Wants Luxury: Silk Wrist Ties by Oh What Beauty
If your partner loves luxurious and elegant things, even in the bedroom, these silk wrist ties will be the perfect gift for them. These cuffs are beautiful to look at, feel soft against the skin, and will elevate your restraint play.
A Gift for the Partner Who Loves Fashion: Maze H Harness by Bijoux Indiscrets
Maze H harness is one of Bijoux’s best-selling accessories and co-founder Elsa Viegas’s favorite. “It looks great whether you’re dressed to the nines or are keeping it casual in a tee shirt and jeans. Needless to say, that it feels amazing over bare skin,” Viegas says. A harness like this can be an intimate accessory and a fashion statement for a partner who loves to dress up and show off.
A Gift for the Partner Who Loves Chocolate: Happy Ending by Alice Mushrooms
If your partner is a fan of chocolate for dessert, then they’ll absolutely love these Happy Ending chocolates. It’s a luxury aphrodisiac chocolate made with natural ingredients designed to get you hot and bothered for some quality intimate time. Eat 2-3 pieces of delicious chocolate right before intimacy, or one piece per day as a delicious supplement to support your libido.
A Gift for the Partner With a Sweet Tooth: The Gift Set by Mochi Melt
Would you like your partner to taste like watermelon? Or maybe you prefer a sweet yet refreshing honeydew flavor? Either way, Mochi Melt has you covered. Their flavored, water-based lube collection is perfect for those days you want to add a little bit of flavor to your dessert…
A Gift for the Partner Who Loves a Good BJ: Woo More Play Coconut Love Oil
“You can eat it, lick it, suck it, fuck it,” says entrepreneur and influencer Lauryn Bosstick about this lube, and we couldn’t have said it better ourselves. This lube is made with natural ingredients, tastes and smells like vanilla cupcakes, and makes BJs a true dessert. Every coconut lover’s dream lube.
A Gift for the Girlfriend Who’s Always Cold: Self-Heating G-Spot Massager by Goop
If your partner loves G-spot orgasms, they’ll absolutely love this self-heating massager. It’s sleek, modern, and made with the best quality ingredients that are safe for the body. The self-heating function heats up just above the body’s natural temperature, which increases blood flow and helps relax the muscles for a better, more pleasurable experience.
A Gift for the Partner Who Has a Taste for Painful Pleasure: Whip by Agent Provocateur
Is your partner a painful pleasure enthusiast? If yes, then this luxurious whip with a crystal-encrusted handle will quickly become the star of their secret closet. It’s high quality, sturdy, and looks absolutely beautiful.
A Gift for the Lover Who Wants To Spice It Up: Pure Delight Orgasm Balm by Coco de Mer
For partners who love clitoral stimulation and want to discover new ways to experience pleasure, this arousal balm is the way to go. Made with natural ingredients, the palm stimulates the area where it’s applied and enhances pleasure. Great for solo and coupled play!
A Gift for the Husband Who Wants To Treat His Wife: Intimate Body & Massage Oil by Playground
No better way to help your partner get in a mood than using a Mood Maker body oil to give them a full-body relaxing massage after a long day at the office or handling kids. This oil is deeply hydrating and will leave your partner’s skin feeling extra plump and silky smooth.
A Gift for the Adventurous Partner: Sex Bonbons by The Oh Collection
Made with three key natural ingredients that boost libido and promote full body relaxation, these sex bonbons are great for a partner with a sweet tooth who loves adventurous dates. Chocolate tasting and a hot make-out session on the sofa or sharing chocolate bonbons before dinner in town are just a couple of ways to spice up your next date night.
A Gift for the Lover Who Loves To Dress Up: Roleplay Costume by Ann Summers
If your partner enjoys dressing up and trying new things in the bedroom, a sex roleplay costume could be a great gift for them. They’ll appreciate you helping them expand their costume wardrobe, and it will inspire you both to plan your next sexy roleplay together.
A Gift for the Partner Who Craves Novelty: Soraya Anal Beads by LELO
Trying new sex toys together is one of the best ways to infuse novelty into your routine. Whether your partner is a collector or a newbie, they’ll absolutely appreciate the luxurious LELO anal beads that are made from premium, body-safe materials and look like a treat. This bad boy vibrates and feels smooth as silk against the skin, your partner will love it. Oh, and you can use it too–it’s friendly to all genders!
A Gift for the Partner Who’s New to Kink: The Link by Bloomi
If your partner has expressed a desire to get a little kinky but doesn’t necessarily want a ball-and-chain type of experience, then these silicone handcuffs might be a great gift for them! They are made from premium materials and feel super soft against the skin. Plus, they’re very non-intimidating and can be removed in an instant. A great beginner-friendly introduction to restraint play for those who are curious but hesitant.
A Gift for the Well-Endowed Partner: Ohnut Rings by The Pelvic People
Ohnut rings make penetration pleasurable for people whose partners are maybe a bit too gifted down there. It’s made from premium quality, body-safe materials that feel great against the skin and come in many different sizes to fit everyone’s needs. Oh, and did we mention it looks like a cute silicone donut?
The kitchen has enough stuff. Your bedside table could use some love.
Gift Arya today.
About Arya
Life is so grown up and you two deserve some play time. Insert your new bestie Arya — a monthly subscription to reignite the spark, try new sexual experiences, and grow closer with your partner. Don't hold back your fantasies! You'll get access to a personal relationship concierge, expertly guided activities tailored to your deepest desires and a curated box of goodies delivered discreetly to your door.
