Arya’s Sexy Gift Guide for Curious and Adventurous Couples
This article was written for Arya by Karolina Wilde
Karolina Wilde is the author of House of Pain, the first book in a seductive dark fantasy romance trilogy, a journalist, and a sex-positive freelance writer who worked with some of the biggest brands in the world. She has a serious obsession with chocolate (dark or milk, never white, and always with salted caramel), and when she's not writing another book or another client article, she can be found playing World of Warcraft or trying to conquer her never-ending TBR pile.
If you have been together with your partner for quite a while, you probably noticed that it’s getting harder and harder to think of fun, useful, and exciting gifts every year. So, why not get your partner something sexy as a gift this year that will not only spice up your bedroom life but will also bring you closer together?
And we’re not talking only about getting your partner a sex toy or a sexy lingerie set! Let’s take it up a notch, and make this holiday season into an experience you both won’t forget.
Arya’s Sexy Gift Guide for Couples: Create an Unforgettable Experience
Sensory Experience
Sensation play can be a very exhilarating experience, and there are many different ways you can elicit and explore different types of sensations. If you are curious to explore, we have a selection of sensory experiences that will make for perfect gifts to your partner.
Quinn
Audio is one of the ways to stimulate your senses, and it can be a truly arousing experience, especially if you have a sexy voice whispering “good girl” into your ear. Our friends at Quinn are masters at audio erotica that will give you and your partner goosebumps! You will surely be hot and bothered afterward.
Afterglow
Visual porn can be another great way to stimulate your senses in a few different ways – you get to see arousing visuals and you get to hear them as well, which can be a powerful experience. Afterglow is an ethical erotica company who have a wide library of high-quality erotic videos you can watch together with your partner.
Sensual Massage Course by Melisa D
Does your partner like to receive a massage? Or maybe they are more into giving? It can be a truly great way to show each other your appreciation and love, and it is a great way to stimulate your senses with physical touch. Why not gift your partner a sensual massage course that you both can take to level up your massage skills?
Massage Oil Candle by Je Joue
A sensual massage is so much better when you have a massage oil candle on hand! Not only does it stimulate your senses with physical touch, but it can also add a touch of temperature play. A perfect gift for your partner!
And there is no better time to shop for a Je Joue massage candle — they are currently running a Black Friday sale and have phenomenal deals.
Dame Dip Vibe
Dame’s Dip personal vibrator is a high-quality unisex vibe that will help you and your partner enhance pleasure and explore new ways to play. The vibes are strong and rumbly, which provide the best sort of stimulation to your intimate areas.
Cake Stroker
If you enjoy handjobs and BJs, then this Cake stroker sleeve will be the perfect gift for your partner. It’s made from quality materials that add extra stimulation which can definitely enhance the pleasure and allow you to explore new sensations.
Only Hearts Lingerie
Another way to stimulate the senses visually is with sexy lingerie! If you are a visual person, or if your partner is easily turned on by visuals, then gifting them with a piece of luxurious lingerie will definitely make them happy during this holiday season.
Satisfyer Pro 2 Suction Toy
When you want to explore a world of totally new sensations, we recommend getting a suction toy! It’s designed to stimulate the sensation of oral sex, and it definitely feels different from all the other vibes. Your partner will be charmed, we are sure!
CBD Intimacy Sex Oil by Foria
For those who are curious to explore the world of CBD, consider getting this intimate sex oil that will make intimate moments feel even more incredible. CBD is magic because it relaxes the muscles and increases the blood flow, which means you will feel much more sensitive.
Lovehoney Beaded Sensual Glass Pleasure Wand
Curious to explore temperature play with your partner? Well, then get them the Lovehoney glass pleasure wand for the holidays! It’s made from glass which can be warmed up or cooled down before use, which will be the perfect way to explore hot and cold sensory experiences.
Band by maude
C-rings can add a lot of new and pleasurable sensations to solo and partnered play. If your partner has a penis and you want to surprise them with something special that will enhance their pleasure and will also feel good for you, then this vibrating C-ring will be just the perfect gift!
Playful Connection
Adult play is just as essential as child’s play, and if you are looking to create a fun and playful experience with your gifts this year, we have quite a few picks for you!
Trivia Night with Niki Davis-Fainbloom
Do you want to test your knowledge about sex and maybe learn a new fact or two while also having fun? Well, then if you live in the New York City area, consider grabbing tickets to the next Trivia Night hosted by Arya’s in-house expert, Niki Davis-Fainbloom!
I’m Kinky And I Know It T-shirt
Is your partner kinky? Then, they definitely need this t-shirt in their wardrobe! A good laugh is guaranteed once they open their gift. While they might not want to wear it every day outside the house, it makes for a perfect t-shirt to wear to bed!
Love Is Art Kit
Making a sex painting with your partner can be a super fun and playful way to spend time together. So, consider gifting them an art kit that’s designed with couples in mind. It will be a gift that will allow you both to create a piece of art you can have on your wall for years to come.
Breast Casting
If you have a specific love for your partner’s bosom, then why not gift them the breast casting experience so you can admire their beauty together and display it in your home? It’s definitely a playful gift your partner won’t expect!
Jizz Machine Sweatpants
And how about a pair of comfy sweatpants for those with a very special kind of kink? We love these sweats from Awkward Essentials that make weekend grocery runs totally *not* awkward!
Spiritual Awakening
For couples who are always looking for new ways to connect on a deeper emotional level, the perfect gift this year will be a spiritual learning experience that you can do solo or together.
Pleasure Plus
Sex and Intimacy Coach and Arya’s Expert Simone Farschi’s Pleasure Plus community is created with curious people in mind. You can choose between courses, yearly retreats, or workshops to find the best form of learning that suits you. Unlock new levels of intimacy and enhance your pleasure in the new year.
If you book a workshop or couples’ coaching with Simone by January 1, you can use code ARYA to get 15% off!
Subvert Your Subconscious
Sex educator and coach Lorrae Bradbury is an Arya Expert who is on a mission to help people live their true and authentic sexual lives. And that is exactly what she is teaching in her online course that you can gift your partner this year, and go through together. You will learn new things about yourself and each other, and find new ways to connect sexually.
If you’re interested, don’t hesitate and book a discovery call with Lorrae now!
Love by Design by Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh
Do you know everything there is to know about love? And how about your partner — do they? The beauty of life is that there is always something more to learn, to explore and to understand.
For those seeking to learn more about love and understand it better, Love by Design by Arya’s Advisor and world-renowned social psychologist Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh is the perfect gift.
Arya Tip: why not do a reading evening with your partner? Grab a glass of wine, or a cup of warm tea (how about some muller wine?), settle comfortly on the sofa and read the book to each other out loud. A great way to learn about love and each other.
BDSM Experience
For the curious and kinky, and seeking an adventure of a lifetime, we recommend gifting one or more unique BDSM-inspired experiences to your partner.
BDSM for Beginners Course By Kaylee Rose
Even if you are not into the kinkiest BDSM activities, there are plenty of fun things to explore when it comes to the world of BDSM. And sex educator Kaylee Rose is here to teach you and your partner all about it, from the comfort of your own home.
Gifting your partner a kinky, fun yet educational course on BDSM and how it can transform your sex life is the perfect gift for those who are looking to transform their sex lives in the new year. New Year, New Kinks as they say!
Shibari Lessons with Mistress Trixie
If you ever wanted to learn how to tie your partner with the rope, or if they have confessed this fantasy to you, then consider getting tickets to one of the workshops by Mistress Trixie in New York City.
You will surely have a good time, learn a new skill, and get inspiration on how to enhance your playtime with sexy ropes the next time – Mistress Trixie has been working with us at Arya to guide our couples on their shibari journey and it’s a fan favorite!
Beginner’s Bondage Kit by Liebe Seele
Another phenomenal sexy gift you might want to consider giving your partner is a beginner’s BDSM kit. This kit is high quality and designed with beginners in mind, so you can relax and enjoy the experience to the fullest even if it’s your first time with restraint play.
Bijoux Indiscrets Necklace Whip
Maybe you want to gift your partner something more discreet, yet sexy? Then, this whip necklace by Bijoux Indiscrets will be right up your alley! It’s luxurious and looks sophisticated dangling from your partner’s neck during dinner and while they’re straddling you in bed.
Silk Wrist Ties by Oh What Beauty
If you want a luxurious restraint play experience with your partner, whether you’re a novice or an experienced BDSM player, then these silk wrist ties will be the perfect gift for your partner. They are beautiful to look at and feel soft against the skin.
Fine Dining
Are you curious to explore a world of fine dining experiences, right in your bedroom? Well, then we have a selection of the best quality products that will surely enhance your taste buds.
TABS Chocolates
If you and your partner are a fan of chocolate for dessert, then TABS Chocolate will be the perfect gift for both of you. It’s a luxury aphrodisiac chocolate made with natural ingredients that are supposed to get you hot and bothered for some quality intimate time. Break the piece into two pieces, share one piece with a partner, and eat it. Wait 30 minutes and see what happens…
Flintt Mints
Do you love a BJ for breakfast, lunch, and dinner (or even if only for a rare dessert…) Flintt Mints might take the whole experience to the next level. These little fun mints are made with special ingredients that make your mouth *sparkle* which produces more saliva and you guessed it… makes BJs delightfully sloppy.
Shunga Chocolate Body Paint
How does a night of painting your partner’s naked body with chocolate and then licking it off sound to you? If the answer is fun, sexy, exciting, delicious, or else, then get this luxurious, high-quality body paint for your partner as a gift and lick chocolate paint off each other for dessert after a date night.
Sliquid Swirl Flavored Lube
Would you like your partner to taste like cherry vanilla? Or maybe you prefer the green apple tart flavor? Well, either way, Sliquid has you covered! Their flavored water-based lube collection is the perfect lube for those days when you want to add a little bit of flavor to your dessert…
My Lorals
Is your partner super sensitive and finds many forms of stimulation to be too much for them? That can be true for many people with vulvas, especially during certain times of their cycle. My Lorals are sexy undies that are made from latex, which can help prevent STIs and they can also be perfect for showing your partner some love with your tongue even during their most sensitive times of the month!
Woo More Play Coconut Love Oil
“You can eat it, lick it, suck it, fuck it,” says entrepreneur and influencer Lauryn Bosstick about this lube and we couldn’t have said it better ourselves. It’s made with natural ingredients, tastes and smells like vanilla cupcakes, and makes BJs a true dessert. Use code ARYA to get 15% OFF when you purchase Woo More Play Coconut Love Oil!
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